A repository of essays analyzing relationships through logic, psychology, and decision theory. A safe harbor for deep thinking.
Evaluating the “investment” of time without emotional bias. When is the cost of staying higher than the cost of leaving?
Read Essay arrow_forwardWhy we overvalue attention when it is scarce, and how the market value of your availability changes when you withdraw.
Removing the grey area by defining terms. If it hasn’t been spoken, it doesn’t exist. A framework for the unspoken.
Why smart women rationalize mediocrity, and the psychological framework needed to break the cycle of self-deception.
Exploring the mental shortcuts that lead to choosing partners who are statistically unlikely to meet long-term needs.
An analysis of time as a finite resource in the dating market, and how to optimize for high-value outcomes.
How to conduct a rigorous emotional post-mortem to ensure your next relationship doesn't repeat the same patterns.
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